Marietta Margaret Bender (née Austin) March 11, 1944 - November 20, 2004 Funeral arrangements by Gordon F Tompkins Funeral Homes (Township Chapel) Peacefully at St. Mary's of the Lake Hospital on Saturday November 20, 2004. Beloved wife of Danny. Cherished mother of Paul (Jane), Michael, stepson Danny (Cindy).Dear daughter of Nellie Austin. Loving sister of Lawrence (Clara), Sadie (Bob) Allan, Louie (Darlene), James (Joanne), Kathy, Donnie (Bea) Wilhemina, Avery (Susan) and sister in law Fay. Always remembered by grandchildren Meagan, Hailey, Jessica, Sondra and Angela. Predeceased by father Robert, brothers Walter and Willie. Mary will be missed by several nieces and nephews and dear friends Sam, Dorothy, Maggie, Ted and Debbie. Friends will be received at the Township Chapel of Gordon F. Tompkins, 435 Davis Drive (Waterloo Village) on Wednesday November 24 between the hours of 10:00 and 11:00 a.m. Memorial Service in Our Chapel on Wednesday at 11:00 a.m. Memorial donations to the Kingston Regional Cancer Clinic would be greatly appreciated by the family. In the care of Gordon F. Tompkins Funeral Homes, Township Chapel, 613-546-5150. Relatives and friends are invited to sign the Book of Condolences at www.gftompkins-township.