MURRAY Shirley (Toth) Murray, age 74, of Stratford, wife of Deacon T. Emmet Murray, died on Saturday, November 15, 2003. She is survived by her devoted children: her son, Brian P. Murray and his wife, Michelle; her daughter, Sharon M. O'Neil and her husband, Richard; her daughter, Nancy M. Murray; her son, Thomas S. Murray and Rosa Graulau; her four beloved grandchildren, Sean and Brendan Murray and Kelly and Kevin O'Neil. Shirley was blessed by God with the three vocations of loyal, supportive wife, devout mother, and exceptionally loving grandmother. She never lost her love for nursing in which she became a living legend as the evening supervisor at St. Vincent-s Medical Center, Bridgeport, and never hesitated to "get her hands dirty" in order to help the nursing staff. Relatives and friends are invited to participate in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. on Tuesday, November 18, 2003, directly at St. Mark Church in Stratford. Interment in St. Michael Cemetery. She will be waked at the Pistey Funeral Home, 2155 Main Street, Stratford, from 4 to 8 p.m. on Monday, November 17, 2003. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Mark Church, 500 Wigwam Lane, Stratford, CT 06614, or to the New England Province of the Society of Jesus, P.O. Box 799, Back Bay Annex, Boston, MA 02117-0799.