VICTOR, N.Y. -- Robert Welton "Uncle Bob" Ayer, 43, died June 18, 2009. He was born in Suffern, N.Y., on May 11, 1966, and grew up and spent much of his life in Victor. He was a 1984 graduate of Victor High School and a 1989 graduate of the State University of New York at Plattsburgh. He was a gifted videographer who was employed by public and commercial television networks before becoming a software developer at Vanteon Corp. of Fairport, N.Y. IN HIS LIFE: Bob is now joyfully reunited with his father, Charles W. Ayer, formerly of both Victor, New York and Exeter, New Hampshire and his dear partner Sam Clark, formerly of Derry, N.H. He is survived by his mother, Dawn F. Ayer of Hampton, N.H., and his big brothers and sisters: Becky and Pat Lennahan of Portsmouth, R.I.; Chuck and Claudia Ayer of Vernon, Conn.; John and Jan Ayer of Marlborough, Conn.; Susan Ayer Smith of Canajoharie, N.Y., and Jim and Diana Ayer of Washington Township, Mich. He is also survived by Uncle Welton Farrar of Wilkes Barre, Pa., Aunt Jane Ingalls of Port Clyde, Maine, and cherished cousins Penny, Steve, Linda, Edward, Sandy, Cathy and Toby. Uncle Bob is also survived by his beloved, loving and numerous nieces and nephews in whose memories he will live on: David, Jenny, Colin, Nicholas, Mike and Katy; Bundle, Timmy and Pete; Matty and Beth; Emily and Andrew; and Ben, Olivia, Francesco, Giacomo and Giuliana. SERVICES: Calling hours are from 5 to 8 p.m. Friday in Remick and Gendron Funeral Home-Crematory, Hampton. There will be a celebration of his life at 11 a.m. Saturday at Trinity Episcopal Church, Hampton. In lieu of flowers and donations, the family requests that people occasionally think of this kind man and smile at the memories.