LEE Phyllis T. Lee, age 58, of Stratford, died at home on Wednesday, October 8, 2003, surrounded by her family. Mrs. Lee is survived by her loving husband and best friend of 38 years, William G. Lee; her children, Whitney L. Ives and Matthew W. Lee; son-in-law, Lawrence J. Ives; daughter-in-law, Ann-Marie Lee; grandchildren Samantha, Alexandra and William Ives, and Alyssa and Nicholas Lee, all of Milford; and her parents, Andre and Lois Tomalino, of Cape May, N.J. She is also survived by two sisters, Lynne Bloomfield and Barbara Tomalino; a brother, Don Tomalino; mother-in-law, Janet Lee of Madison; brothers-in-law, J. Wesley Lee of Durham, and David Lee of Georgia; and several nieces and nephews. Mrs. Lee lived in Stratford for 34 years. She was a research administrator for Bayer Corporation. Family and friends are invited to attend a memorial service at the Stratford United Methodist Church on Saturday, October 11, 2003, at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Stratford Library or the American Cancer Society.