Paul E. Lavallee, 63     CAPE ELIZABETH - Paul E. Lavallee, 63, of Cape Elizabeth died Monday, April 17, 2006 at the Maine Medical Center after a long illness.     Paul was born in Hartford, Conn., the son of Hubert and Dorcas Mather Lavallee where he was educated and a graduate of Warwick High School in Warwick, R.I., in 1960. Paul attended Providence Country Day, where he became an all state wrestler. He went on to the University of Connecticut with a full scholarship to play football.      Paul married Heather Grady on Dec. 28, 1985. They went on to have five boys and a girl together.     Paul had a passion for football. He played in semi - pro football in Rhode Island. He coached for many leagues in Rhode Island and here in Maine. In Cape Elizabeth he started the High School football program in 1997.     During his lifetime he worked as a car salesman, but most recently he worked as a mortgage broker starting his own business and working as a consultant with other companies for the past 20 years. He owned and operated Lighthouse Mortgage in Cape Elizabeth.     He served on the football board where he helped on fund raising. Paul went to every game that his family members played on.     Paul will be greatly missed by his family and friends in Cape Elizabeth and his three daughters that he was very proud of.     He is predeceased by a daughter Elizabeth H. Lavallee in 1987.     Survivors include his wife of 20 years, Heather Lavallee of Cape Elizabeth; three daughters, Karen of Massachussetts, Suzanne of Rhode Island, and Jessica of Rhode Island; five sons, Matthew, Jonathan, Nathanael, Andrew, and Christian of Cape Elizabeth; and six grandchildren.     There will be no visiting hours a memorial service will be held 11:30 a.m., Friday, April 21, at St. Albans Episcopal Church in Cape Elizabeth.     Arrangements made by the Hobbs Funeral Home, 230 Cottage Rd., South Portland.    Paul E. Lavallee