CARTHER, James Peter - Unexpectedly in London, Ontario on Friday, April 20, 2007 at the age of 18. Loving son of Tom and Dierdre both of London. Proud brother to Sera of London. Cherished grandson of Al and the late Isabelle Carther of Fort Erie. Sadly missed by his Aunt Laurie and Uncle Marc, and his cousin Mia, all of Ancaster; many great aunts and uncles, extended family and friends. James was recently accepted to Fanshawe's Civil Engineering Technicians course and will be remembered for his compassionate and gentle manner. Visitation will take place at the JOHN T. DONOHUE FUNERAL HOME, 362 Waterloo St. (at King) in London on Tuesday evening from 7-9. A Celebration of James's life will take place at the Funeral Home on Wednesday at 12 noon. A private family graveside service will occur in Fort Erie. If so desired, contributions to the Epilepsy Foundation of Canada would be appreciated by the family. http://www.epilepsyontario.org You can shed tears that he is gone, Or you can smile because he has lived. You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back, Or you can open your eyes and see all he has left. Your heart can be empty because you can't see him Or you can be full of love you shared. You can turn your back on tomorrow and live in yesterday Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday You can remember him and only that he is gone Or you can cherish his memory and let it live on. You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back Or you can do what he'd want; Smile, open your eyes, know that he is safe, love and go on. 10623606