Barbara DeForest Adams Wilson, 65     SOUTH PORTLAND -- Barbara DeForest Adams Wilson, of South Portland passed away unexpectedly April 18, 2008. She was 65.     Born in Norwalk, Conn., the only daughter of Robert T. and Sylvia B. DeForest, she grew up in Darien, Conn., graduated from Darien High School in 1961 and attended Vassar College.      She was predeceased by her first husband Jack Adams (1969) and second Jeffery Wilson (2000). She is survived by her children, Jonathan Adams of Tokyo, Japan; Andrew Wilson and his wife Cindy of Brunswick, Sarah Rimkunas and her husband Tony; and granddaughter Margaret of Gorham.     A memorial service will be held at Hobbs Funeral Home, 230 Cottage Rd., South Portland, Thursday, April 24, 2008, at 2 p.m. A full obituary will be available on the website at www.hobbsfuneralhome.com.     In lieu of flowers the family asks a donation be made to:     The Center for Grieving Children     P.O. Box 1438     Portland, Maine 04104     Barbara DeForest Adams Wilson